Thursday, March 06, 2008
Scarier than a horror film
Why is it that some people are so fickle-minded? Why is it that they can make a decision but cannot stick to it? Why do they ditch something because they're tired of it, but still awake it from the dead? Why can't they just bloody move on, and put everything (everyone) behind them?
The guy breaks up with the girl. Girl goes clubbing (no harm, cos she IS single). Guy finds out about Girl's night out and goes into fits.
Findings: Guy is delusional
Rationale: You've dumped her! You left her out of your life at your own free will. She has EVERY RIGHT to do whatever she wants, whenever she wants, with whoever she wants. You have no say in this because YOU LEFT HER ON THE SIDEWALK. She may still be in love with you, but that doesn't mean you run her life. SHE, ALONE, DETERMINES HER DESTINY. And since you have already chosen your path, STICK TO IT and PUT HER OUT OF MISERY. In other words, you want her back, tell her. If not, STOP acting as though you're still her other half.
Girl is devastated because Guy has officially stopped contacting her. Guy didn't invite her to his Graduation Ceremony. Girl becomes paranoid that Guy might bring another Girl along with him.
Findings: Girl has Paranoid Personality Disorder
Rationale: This may sound harsh, and you may have already heard it, but THE GUY DOESN'T WANT YOU BACK. He dumped/ditched/tossed you aside! You're "unwanted" by him. If he chooses to attend his Graduation Ceremony (which he has the right to), he can bring all the girls in the world to accompany him, and you can't do anything about it. Why? HE HAS STEPPED OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP. Nobody can blame him for two-timing, nobody can accuse him of being unfaithful. Since he has made himself (relatively) clear of what he wants to pursue now, you should do the same. Take some time off, sit back and think about what you plan to achieve during this period of time. Life still goes on despite you being single. It doesn't just end here.To Guy: I have nothing more to say to you apart from "SELFISH" and good luck in life.
To Girl: You know what I (and another pal) wanna put across to you. My apologies for being harsh. Now it's your time to shine. So go for it, girl!
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p/s: I'll have a mega-picture post up soon. That is, if I can get the pictures from my friend. So, no promises =)
